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America’s Greatest Strength Isn’t What You Think
“Happy Independence Day to every professional who’s ready to declare their own independence.”
The Biggest Mistake People Make in Getting Referrals
“Don’t try to get something before you’ve given enough value.”
Past Posts
How to Get Referrals Without Asking | Dan Rochon on Teach to Sell
“People do not refer you because you asked. They refer you because they trust your reputation.”
How to Get Referrals Without Asking Awkwardly
“Lead by example, be a connector.”
The Referral Question I Ask Every Week
“More isn’t necessarily better. Better is better.”
You Might Be Repelling Referrals
“You don’t become a bigger person by making someone else feel small.”

Your Networking Strategy Is Broken | Here’s Why
“People want to know someone who is trustworthy from someone who is already trustworthy.”
The Upstream Model Framework That Changes Everything
“When you authentically serve their wants, needs and desires, the sales naturally follow.”
The $100K Mistake Every Agent Makes With Their Database
“There are people out there who already have your ideal clients… and they serve them just before they’re going to need you.”
How I Use AI to Be More Relevant and Valuable in Relationships
“Have it do more stuff in the back office so you can be more relevant and more present in the front office—out building relationships.”
How Not to Use AI
“You can be efficient with things, but don’t be efficient with people.”
How to Build a Trust-Driven Business with Referrals
“A lead may know your name, but a referral transfers belief.”
The Final Episode: Think Bigger Real Estate
“We go chasing attention because we don’t have trust.”
How to Stand Out in 2026
“In a crowded industry, being just better gets you competing, whereas being collaborative makes you different and sets you apart.”
How to Scale Individual Attention
“Being salesy never ever helps you—ever, ever, ever. Just stop. Enthusiasm is great, and love of what you’re doing is great, but you have to back it up with knowledge and something that is worthwhile to another person.”
The Ultimate Referral System
“You help enough people get what they want, and you get what you want.”
Growing Your Emotional Intelligence
“People take an emotional decision and then they dress it up in the language of a transaction. They want to pretend like it’s a transaction when it really is something else.”
Setting up for Success in 2026
“Fourth of July ends and the fall decorations are up at Costco… we have to be thinking that far ahead and be strategic.”
Beware the Race to the Bottom
“The door you walk through into a client’s life really matters. Come in through a lead portal and you’re a commodity.”
How to Value, Buy, & Sell Brokerages
“The value of your brokerage is your agents. If they won’t transfer to a new owner, the valuation is irrelevant.”
Learn to Unlock Your Potential
“Sure, the market isn’t easy, but if the market controlled everything, wouldn’t everybody have the exact same business? The reality is, it’s different for everybody based on how we show up.”
Learn to Lead Under Pressure
“You can’t just be comfortable with what you do in your current role. If you want to be to build something that lasts, you have to empower others to do things on your behalf.”
Real Estate Has Completely Changed
“We shouldn’t be upset that clients are doing more on their own; we should be finding additional ways to add value.”
59 Homes a Year, All By Referral
“People are over-communicated but under-cared for. Everyone’s talking to them all the time, but what they really need is a friend: someone who just shows up and cares for them.”
The Secret Recipe For Connection
“Connection takes two ingredients: empathy and vulnerability. Feel what others feel, and be open enough to share what you feel. That’s how real, human connection happens.”
How to Crush It as a Real Estate Mom
“Don’t ask yourself ‘Can I do this?’—ask ‘How can I?’ Because when you start asking open-ended questions, your mind begins finding solutions. You’re usually a lot closer to your breakthrough than you think.”
Are Real Estate Agents Going Extinct?
“The sky is not falling — unless you stay where you’re at. Great professionals learn how to innovate. They learn how to take one step forward in serving a client in some other way that makes them relevant and valuable again.”
Answering Your Referral Questions
“A referral isn’t just a name—it’s a transfer of trust. The internet can’t give you that.”
Do THIS to Stay Relevant
“Don’t work in a silo. If your client needs a tax professional, don’t just wish them luck; connect them, coordinate with them.”
Physical Mail in a Digital First World
“As marketers, we can be most effective not by thinking just in terms of digital or analog, but in terms of the customer and what they need from us to move forward.”
Grow By Focusing Your Business
“In every market in the country, a by-referral agent is the best agent from a client-experience standpoint and should be the number one agent in the market. It just becomes a question of where you want to put your attention: is it on finding the client or serving the client?”
How to Get Referrals From Financial Advisors
“You’re going to be really good at what you do if you have meaningful, deeply trusted relationships with your clients. That’s what makes all the difference.”
How to Get More Business From Investors
“Technology is important in real estate, but it will never replace the local expertise of a great agent. The real win comes when technology does 70–80% of the heavy lifting and the agent steps in with market knowledge and relationships to finish the job. That’s how investors and agents both win—by creating a partnership that generates twelve deals a year instead of one.”
Referrals to Avoid
“Don’t have such a fragile business that you’re depending upon any one source, let alone those relationships in life that matter the most to you. Friends and family should be icing on the cake—but the cake itself comes from building professional referral networks.”
Build a Referral Network
“You can’t be great at all things. You can be great at one thing—choose that one thing and find referral partners around you who can help you do everything else.”
How to Crush It in Business and in Life
“Life is not about balance. We are never going to find that perfect balance. It’s about counterbalance… if it’s not specifically serving the client or serving my team members, I’m just going to say no to it.”
Let Others Promote You
“When you get the right referral, the right introduction from a professional who already has the trust of that particular client, then you aren’t having to convince them. You’re just showing up and serving.”
Teach to Sell
“Instead of trying to close people, you show them how to think so they can get what they want—and that positions you as a trusted expert they’ll naturally follow.”
What’s Your Real Estate Business Worth?
“If your entire income stops the moment that you stop working, you do not have a business. You have a job.”
Your Real Estate Business Valuation
“If your database is just a prospecting list or a bunch of internet leads, that’s not a business—it’s a task list. But if your business is built on real relationships, with trust that can transfer, now you’ve got something of value.”
Should You Sell Your Real Estate Business?
“Selling your real estate business is not quitting. In fact, it might be the most intelligent move you ever make.”
How a Reverse Mortgage Can Change Your Life
“A real estate agent has a huge untapped opportunity that 96% of agents in their market are not taking advantage of, which is a reverse mortgage for purchase.”
Winning in Today’s Luxury Market
“We’re branding the house, and we’re part of the brand story. Down to every detail.”
Achieve Business Freedom
“The future of well-paid real estate professionals isn’t about grinding harder—it’s about leading smarter.”
Divorce and Real Estate
“They don’t actually care about [selling their house]. They want to know that I’m helping them through the process. They don’t know where they’re going on the back end… It’s that emotional attachment that is very, very hard for them.”
Cost Segregation for Real Estate
“You’re not just an overpaid order taker in their eyes—you’re somebody who helped them save tens of thousands of dollars in taxes that year. That’s phenomenal.”
Build a Personal Brand That Attracts
“Your personal brand is happening, whether you like it or not.”
Spot Businesses Worth Buying
“You’re not just buying a list—you’re stepping into trusted relationships.”
Tell Stories That Sell
“Your job is to be the Yoda, not the Skywalker… You are the one who’s uncovering the hero and helping them to turn into all that they need to become to overcome the conflict.”
How to Hire
“If your business can’t function without you, what you have isn’t a business—it’s a job. And nobody wants to buy your job. Real scale starts when you learn how to hire the right people, put them in the right seats, and let go to grow.”
From Big Dreams to Big Results
“The ‘to-believe’ list is the new to-do list. If you believe that missing three out of ten soccer games still makes you a great parent, then your schedule starts to reflect that belief. It’s not about doing more—it’s about doing what matters most. And when you let future-you guide today’s decisions, the messy middle becomes a lot less messy.”
Marketing Lifestyle Luxury Real Estate
“Marketing isn’t just something you do on a schedule—it’s how you live. It’s how you show up in everyday moments, not just the highlight reel. When you stop treating marketing like a task and start treating it like a mindset, that’s when everything shifts.”
Stand Out in a Sea of Sameness
“If you sound like everyone else, you’ve already lost your uniqueness. You may be amazing at what you do, but if the consumer can’t tell the difference — then to them, there is no difference.”
Conversational Intelligence
“A good conversation doesn’t automatically mean it’s a trust-based conversation. But when we trigger oxytocin through how we listen and speak, we open the door to real connection, creativity, and influence. That’s how we think bigger—together.”
Partnership Announcement With Amy Stockberger
“You’re one relationship away from a massive breakthrough. The right partnership gives you access to new audiences, new capabilities, and trust you haven’t earned yet—but can borrow. That’s how you grow faster, and further, together.”
Building a Capital Gains Tax Exit Plan
“When you help clients unlock their mission, vision, and values, and then show them how to eliminate capital gains tax, you’re not just closing deals—you’re transforming lives.”
AI Might be Hurting Your Business
“Let AI be the structure, but you be the soul.”
From Reactive to Proactive
From Reactive to Proactive https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SfSw8AKPBHc By Justin Stoddart Introduction Are you a real estate agent feeling like you’re on a never-ending treadmill—exhausted, reactive, and constantly
The Secrets of Success
“Nobody wants to hear your excuses—they want to know the job’s done, done right, and on time. If you want to stand out, forget yourself, serve the client, and keep your word. That’s the difference between average and exceptional.”
Don’t be a Blockbuster
“If you miss the data, you miss the opportunity.”
How to Have a Growth Mindset
“A growth mindset means being open to learning, to new ideas, and to the possibility that there’s always a better way. Too often, people think they’ve already figured it all out—but that kind of thinking keeps you stuck.”
Generating Business From Contractors
Generating Business From Contractors By Justin Stoddart Introduction In the world of real estate, one of the most common frustrations among agents is the one-way
Referrals: Who Not How
“If you come in to get, you’re going to leave with not much—whereas if you come to give, to truly give value to that professional and their clients, you’ll find yourself walking out with more business than you know what to do with.”
Be Your Own Relational AI
“In the service of clients, I see two primary types, relational and transactional… If you’re looking to build Relational AI, be sure you are aligned with the former.”
Mastering Stress
“Stress isn’t just about what’s happening now—it’s about the uncertainty of what’s coming next. The more we help our clients gain clarity and confidence in their decisions, the more we create certainty for ourselves.”
Build a Business You Can One Day Sell
“What would happen if you had to step away from your business for 90 days? Would it survive? Would it still be profitable? Or—just maybe—could it be even stronger without you? The truth is, if your business can’t function without you, it’s not really a business—it’s a job.”
How to Improve Your Systems & Processes
“Most entrepreneurs say they want their time back. But what happens? They build their business the wrong way, and soon, they’re saying, ‘I want my money back.’ It’s this constant cycle of time and money—until you put the right systems in place.”
Lessons from Southwest Airlines
“When you anticipate your clients’ needs and present opportunities before they even ask, you create more value, build stronger relationships, and set yourself apart from the competition. The professionals who lead—rather than wait—are the ones who win.”
Introducing The Deep Dive by ProInsight
“Imagine discovering that one of your past clients owns five rental properties in your market—but they’re using another agent. With The Deep Dive, you gain full visibility into your clients’ real estate holdings, allowing you to proactively serve them rather than waiting for them to call you.”
Choose a Niche
“The reality is, consumers don’t just want a real estate agent—they want a trusted advisor. A generalist might be able to get the job done, but a specialist delivers real value.”
Nike’s Billion Dollar Pivot
“If you want to stand out in your industry, you need to move beyond just providing a service—you need to become a platform.”
Professional Collaboration
“Show me your calendar, and I can tell you how successful you’re going to be.”
The Silver Tsunami of Opportunity
“Rather than starting from scratch, you can actually jump to the front of the line. By acquiring an existing business, you inherit its customer base, brand reputation, and systems—allowing you to grow by multiplication rather than addition. This is a trillion-dollar opportunity. The only question is: will you be ready?”
Why Your Exit Strategy Matters
“None of us are guaranteed tomorrow. If you want to do something fun in your life, do it today. The worst that can happen is you don’t love it and you go back. But the best that can happen? Your life could change in ways you never imagined.”

Does Your Business Feel Like a Job?
“Are you running a business or just owning a job? If your business can’t operate without you, it’s time to rethink your strategy. By focusing on three key areas—sales & marketing, operations, and finance—you can build a transferable business that works for you, not because of you.”
Making Moves in Real Estate
“Making moves has been one of our core values for over a decade. Success in real estate isn’t about waiting for the market or economy to save you. It’s about taking bold actions, embracing change, and finding opportunities—even when they’re hard to see. When you walk through one door, thousands of new opportunities can open up.”
Overcoming Challenges Facing Real Estate Agents
“The most successful real estate agents in 2025 will be those who transition from salespeople to trusted advisors. Focus on preparation, surround yourself with a strong network, and streamline your back-office processes to ensure you can dedicate your energy to serving clients effectively.”
Secrets of a TOP 50 US Real Estate Broker
“I wanted to solve the problem of taking care of our clients for life. Not just during the transaction, but through their entire homeownership and human experience journey. We created the Lifetime Home Support Model to authentically serve our clients’ wants, needs, and desires—keeping us top of mind while building a business rooted in relationships and service.”
Discounted Mortgage Notes with Eddie Speed
“Mortgage note investing offers a unique opportunity to generate passive income by buying debt secured by real estate. Learn the basics, benefits, and risks of this alternative investment strategy to decide if it’s right for you.”
CREATE Your Dream Real Estate Business with a Solid Plan!
If you fail to plan, you plan to fail. Yet, many real estate agents find traditional business plans uninspiring and ineffective—often creating them once a year only to tuck them away and forget about them. What if your business plan could be as dynamic and interactive as a GPS, guiding you step-by-step toward your biggest goals?
In our latest blog post, we unveil a transformative approach to real estate business planning that combines the inspirational elements of a vision board with tactical execution strategies. Learn how to create a living, breathing plan that not only sets ambitious targets but also maps out exactly how to achieve them. We’ll walk you through crafting your personal and business stories, calculating your true dollar-per-hour value, identifying high-impact activities, and structuring your daily schedule for maximum productivity. Say goodbye to static plans and hello to a dynamic roadmap that propels your business—and life—to new heights.
Buy Real Estate WITHOUT Traditional Bank Financing?
Learn how creative real estate financing can unlock your financial freedom. Discover strategies to build a property portfolio without traditional bank loans.
Why BAD Internet Leads Are WASTING Your Time
Are internet leads helping or hurting your real estate business? With low conversion rates, high competition, and costly follow-up, they may be more of a burden than a benefit. Discover six key reasons to rethink internet leads and consider a relationship-driven approach that builds trust, saves time, and increases your ROI.
The Perfect Financial Strategy
The perfect financial strategy according to Certified Financial Planner, Mark Willis.
Generating Relocation Referrals
The secret to great relationships is understanding the reciprocity principle.

The Secret to Great Relationships (Reciprocity Principle)
The secret to great relationships is understanding the reciprocity principle.
The ONE Mistake Costing You Professional Connections
The greatest business and thought leaders got that way by knowing how to say “NO”.
Interview: Rudy
Recognize that you are the one that can change everything for your family and your clients.

How Saying NO Made Me a Successful Professional
The greatest business and thought leaders got that way by knowing how to say “NO”.
Interview: Dave Seymour
Recognize that you are the one that can change everything for your family and your clients.

Get More Real Estate Referrals FAST with This Simple Trick
Are you struggling to get more real estate referrals? Look no further! In this video, we unveil a simple yet powerful trick that can help you boost your referral business fast.
Working by Professional Referral
Recognize that you are the one that can change everything for your family and your clients.

Real Estate is a Team Sport
Too many real estate agents source their referrals alone. In this episode I talk about how to turn your “individual sport” into a “team sport” and make a lot more money in the process.
Be the One
Recognize that you are the one that can change everything for your family and your clients.
Probate and Trust Real Estate
Specializing in probate and trust real estate is a tremendous opportunity to serve people in a unique way. Listen in to the LA Probate Expert, Bill Gross.

Build Your Referral Dream Team
Professionals like real estate agents often work their lead generation alone. Using the team approach, they can generate referrals on the regular.

Grow Your Referral Network While Chilling on Vacation
Real estate agents and a focused vacation. Is there such a thing? You can expand your referral network without sacrificing your well-deserved vacation.

How to Get ENDLESS Real Estate Clients from Your Vendors
Tired of traditional real estate lead generation? Discover the secret to unlocking a steady stream of real estate clients by leveraging your existing vendor relationships! In this video, we dive deep into proven strategies that can transform your vendors into powerful sources of referrals.

3 REDWOOD MINDSET LESSONS You Need to Know For Success
Wouldn’t it be nice to have an invincible mindset as a real estate agent? In this video, you will learn 3 lessons from Justin’s experience in Redwood National Forest.

The 3 Reasons You’re Missing Out on Referrals as a Realtor
Are you a real estate agent who wants to generate more referrals to grow your business? In this video, we delve into the 3 key reasons that might be holding you back from maximizing your referral potential.
These three reasons:
1. Execution is greater than Intention.
2. No Shared Medium
3. Lack of Edification

Real Estate Referrals from Financial Advisors
Referrals from financial advisors are the best form of business a real estate agent can get. Yet why do so few real estate agents tap into this perfect referral source? Watch this video to learn three reasons why you’re not getting referrals and what you can do about it!

Leading A Real Estate Team
In this episode, I interview Heather Mansy of the Mansy Real Estate Group, uncovering enlightening insights about succeeding by leading others to a better and brighter future.

Attracting Talent
Join me as we learn together from top real estate team leader, Courtney Twiss.

Reduce Your Taxes
The tax system (as it currently stands) is rigged and not in the average taxpayer’s favor. Today I introduce you to a dynamic duo (Accountant and Tax Ninja) to teach you simple strategies to reduce your taxes by as much as 30%.

Finding Your Unique Competitive Advantage
Mark Charlton has personally closed over $1B in volume as a mortgage loan officer and now leads Vision Mortgage. Outside of his career, he and his wife Colby, are the proud parents of three beautiful children.

Creating Deep Client Connections
Karl Becker has founded and run numerous companies over the last thirty years and runs Improving Sales Performance, a consultancy that supports sales organizations in building high-performing teams and achieving their revenue goals.

Real Estate Syndication 101
Join me and the Founder of Luxe Capital, Sujata Shyam, as we discuss the basics of real estate syndication investing.

Long-Term Client Relationships
This episode will feature Matthew Hansen who has helped over 1000 business owners unlock the magic of giving strategic gifts that make you stand out and be remembered.

Engaging Marketing Strategies
Learn creative marketing strategies to engage your ideal clients to better acquire your ideal clients.

When Real Estate & Insurance Collaborate
Although real estate is tied to an insurance policy, few recognize the many synergies that can happen from professionals in these two industries.

Working Through Adversity
In this episode, I’ll dive into the principles of overcoming when it feels like the odds are stacked against you.
When to Invest in Real Estate
On Monday, I’ll be interviewing Chris Prefontaine of Smart Real Estate Coach to extract from him these key factors that will make you more effective at speaking to and serving your buyers, sellers, and investors.

Success with TikTok
Rachel Kilmer was voted the top real estate agent in Kansas City in 2023. She calls herself a Realtor and accidental TikToker. In this episode, Rachel shares with us the principles of success on social media that you can apply to TikTok or your preferred social medium.

The Truth About Failure
In this episode, I interview Best-Selling Author and Top Coach David Adam Kurz. David has coached thousands of professionals and closed over $900M in sales.

Creating a Successful Culture
Justin is a man of faith, a family man, was voted the top Broker for all of ReMax in 2021 and was the #2 Broker in all of New Jersey. He’s someone who things big and and will help you do the same both in life and in business.

Real Estate Strategies for Funding College
Brad Baldridge is the owner, and Chief Podcaster at Taming the High Cost Of College. He help business owners and families develop strategies that may save thousands on the cost of college. He also provide College Funding Planning for families that do not qualify for need based financial aid.

Top 3 Lessons from 30 Years in Real Estate
Debbi DiMaggio is a Master Networker, Consummate Connector, serial entrepreneur, mentor and philanthropist — with one goal in mind, a desire to help others achieve their goals.

Leads From Facebook Groups
Laura Griffin turned a Facebook Moms Group into a top lead generation tool. She generates over $20 million a year in sales from a Facebook Group.
She’s the #4 agent out of her 1000 agent brokerage while helping other agents learn the lead generation power of a free Facebook Group.

Unlocking Real Estate Potential
Scott P Smith’s experience in turning real estate into a means of changing lives and generational wealth is worth the listen.

Thinking Bigger When the Industry is Dismantling
Eric Hagstette is the Broker/Owner of Inhabit Real Estate in Portland, Oregon. Eric is a big thinker and here he talks about how he’s helping his agents to thrive amidst the current industry changes.

Marketing, Automation, & Lead Conversion
This episode highlights Spencer Dusebout, the CEO of Aidium, a fast-growing mortgage CRM from one of the industry’s rising stars.

Thinking Celestial is Thinking Bigger
In this podcast episode, I share the words that were shared with me and how they apply beyond our spiritual lives to help us have the business and in turn, the quality of life that we’ve always wanted.

Leveraging Life Insurance
Dan Thompson is an author and an advisor. He has been advising for the past 38 years and has become an expert on tax elimination.

Opportunities in Today’s Real Estate Market
Todd Pigott has been featured on local news programs, as a speaker for CMA, California’s largest organizations for private money lenders, as a speaker at mortgage schools on the topic of profiting on distressed assets, and has been a featured guest on the national TV news programs, “Moving America Forward” hosted by William Shatner.

More Referrals for Professionals
In this episode, we’re going to talk about real estate agent referral partners and we’re going to uncover the secrets behind it.

Build A Client-Consistent Brand
In this episode, we welcome Tia Lilly, the Founder/Broker Owner of Property Cape Cod Real Estate to discuss about brand building.

Uncovering The Secrets Behind “Real Estate Agent Referral Partners”
In this episode, we’re going to talk about real estate agent referral partners and we’re going to uncover the secrets behind it.

The Answers are in Your Journal
Watch this video and listen to the podcast now as we talk about journaling.

Rising Above Your Competition as a Real Estate Agent
Stay tuned and watch this episode as I teach you how to rise above competition as a real estate agent!
Real Estate Market Update
Kyle Seyboth, Top Producing Real Estate Agent & Thirty-five plus transactions per month
Women Winning In Real Estate
Lisa Copeland, Founder of Women WIRE Inc. – Women Winning In Real Estate
Database Marketing
Dan Demott, an esteemed real estate coach and the owner of the Home Source Team.

The PI Certification
Receiving referrals from other professionals has always been a bit of a Herculean effort… until now. Instead, the goal should be business integration.
Real Estate Content Creation
Loida built my business through cold calling and door-knocking FSBOs and Expireds. Since 2015, she started creating content on YouTube and has 88K subscribers and over 5M views
How to Differentiate
Most professionals (real estate, lending, financial advisors) don’t stand out from their peers because they’ve learned everything they know “from their peers.” Do you see the dilemma? It’s hard to differentiate when everyone pulls ideas from the same pool.
Build Your Wealth Advisory Team
In this interview, I introduce you to Vince Shorb, one of the nation’s leading advocates for financial wellness. Vince creates partnerships with financial service providers that enhance their brand, increase awareness, highlight their expertise, and deepen relationships with prospects and clients.
#365 Organic Social Media
Professionals in real estate and various other fields invest significant effort into crafting social media content, with the aspiration that it will yield fruitful outcomes.